By Patrick McCarthy

 Date night is an important part of keeping your marriage strong.  When the children start popping out, it becomes more difficult to enjoy the carefree night life you had as newleyweds.  Going out doesn't have to be a unatainable goal.  With a little planning, you'll discover it's well worth the effort.
 
The first step is committing to spending time together with just the two of you and leaving the kids at home.  you may think you don't have the energy after a long day but you'll feel refreshed after a night on the town that may consist of little more than going out together for a cup of coffee and dessert.  It may help to motivate you when you realize that your marriage is the nucleus of the family.  Your childrem's needs will be met if the needs of your marriage are met.                
 
Now that you know you want to go out, what to do about the kids?  Some thoughts on that topic will be in my next articl

                 
Now that you know you want to go out, what to do about the kids?  Some thoughts on that topic will be in  my next article.  For now, it’s  time to start planning what you’re going to do on Valentine’s Day.